It’s Better to Let God be God
When we are born, psychologists say that we see our parents as God, or someone like them. Eventually as we grow up — especially during our teenage years — we begin to see that God is not our parents. We’re able to distinguish between our parents and God-who-is-our-Creator.
After that, one goal on the “to do list” of our life is to find out, figure out, experience who God is for us. The problem is that many people try to make God into what they want God to be — one who does their bidding. “Please get me a good job, a good spouse, a winning lottery ticket, a Red Sox season ticket.” God can be that but God is much more!
Our life gives us the opportunity to discover who we are at the same as we discover who God is for us. In some social circles, people look for a “life coach” or maybe a therapist – someone who can listen to us and guide us. In Christian circles, this person is known as a spiritual director.
That person is not meant to be a friend but rather one who helps us listen to God. In fact God is not to be discovered as we would discover an island or find a lost object. We discover God by noticing that God is already present to us in the ebb and flow of our daily life.
At the time when we first fall in love, we begin to realize that life can look differently. Many parents say that when they have their first child, everything changes. They see themselves and their lives quite differently. In my experience as a Catholic priest, I have found that new parents have often expressed to me that they are coming back to active faith because they now have someone else (their child) who will depend on them for those important qualities of faith, love and forgiveness. They feel responsible for their child, as they should.
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